FAQ’s
Do you have Your own facilities?
Yes. My private chambers are in Wokingham, Berkshire. It has private off road parking and is easily accessible by train (Wokingham station) / bus (Leopard bus route).
Where can I come to session with You?
With My own very well equipped private play space in Berkshire, it negates the need for Me to tour / travel often. The best place for you to session with Me is amongst My own dungeon comforts, where I’m comfortable in My surroundings and can orchestrate your demise with ease.
Should I be touring or travelling, you’ll find that announcement/information here on My website or on My social media pages.
I also consider “Fly Me to you” options both UK and internationally.
When can I come to session with You?
I have two days off every week, however these are not fixed and do vary from week to week. Essentially, with enough notice I’m available any of the 7 days a week between the hours of 10am - 11pm (overnight sessions excluded).
How many sessions do You do in a day?
I limit My weeks / session days to a set maximum amount of sessions to prevent burn out and to allow a leisurely amount of time for Me to prepare and plan for O/our session. I am a luxury, and I treat the approach to sessions that way in that the more relaxed and organised I am for session the better experience W/we BOTH are going to have. This is also the reason I do NOT take on last minute sessions (less than 24 hours notice).
What tribute is required for a session with You?
My tribute is dependent on location, length of session and occasionally the session request itself so if your session application to Me is successful, you will be notified the required tribute in My reply.
What is the minimum session length?
My minimum session requirement is 1 hour, I will not conduct half hour sessions and I’ll often encourage a 90 minutes minimum to allow Us appropriate time together to descend into the right space of play.
Do You offer overnight sessions?
Yes, I do offer overnight sessions at My private play space. Overnight sessions can be tailored to include different lengths of play during the longer stay in My dungeon with Me.
Overnight sessions will ALWAYS include you sleeping in either some form of bondage or being caged for the sleeping portion of the evening.
What is a Fly Me to you (FMTY) session?
A Fly Me to you session, is terminology for an outcall set up.
Each arrangement will have individual requirements but generally for each outcall I will require TWO references of Professional Dominatrices you have seen in the last 2 years, they must be contactable. A minimum session will apply (3 hours UK and 2 nights Europe), all expenses are to be covered such as travel and hotel. I will not outcall to your home in ANY circumstance.
Do You offer sexual/personal services?
NO, absolutely not.
you will not be offered anything in terms of sexual pleasure from Me nor will you be sexually or intimately pleasuring Me in anyway. This includes rimming, cunningulus and hand jobs. I may indulge in orgasm control activities during session such as using a milking machine or forced (instructed) masturbation, but these activities are completely at My discretion. My sessions are aimed around pure, addictive Female Domination. If you are applying to session with Me with primarily an orgasm in mind then don't bother. BDSM is an exploration of the alternative sexual encounters.
Do You ever get naked during sessions?
I may remove an item of clothing for toilet based activities, at My discretion. I do NOT take requests for nudity.
Would You like to see a photo of me before I attend session/with my application?
No, your appearance is irrelevant to Me and no, I do not offer discounts regardless of your supposed good looks nor excellent personalities.
Are You looking for a personal/lifestyle sub?
No, I am not actively looking. Should a domestic/lifestyle vacancy or the like arise I will advertise for it. Do not bother applying otherwise.
Regardless any lifestyle/domestic slave I have had in the past has ALWAYS come to Me via an established relationship through one on one Professional play sessions. So just book a session!
I have a specific scenario or fantasy in mind can I apply for it to be played out?
No, I am an authentic Dominatrix and not an actress. I will always operate within our mutual interests but I decide upon the structure of the session and will not follow a script. I do like to sometimes adopt certain role play characters such as Teacher/student or Policewoman/criminal if this is of mutual interest but again the verbal/scenario will be decided upon by Me. you wouldn’t enjoy My demeanour when attempting to be fake and follow a script.
Will You respect my limits?
Of course, this is why it is extremely important you are clear on your application as to just what your limits are. I will not push those limits nor introduce you to new previously unexplored interests unless we have previously discussed doing so. I also allow 5/10 minutes prior to session starting to sit down together and have a brief discussion on your application interests and your experience.
But I’m new to sessions and I don’t know what My limits are?
I’m well versed with seeing new subs and kinksters. I advise you first do your research as to what interests you particularly mutually between U/us which you can find My own interests here on My website and that’s a good place to start to introduce yourself to kink play types. you might also want to sign up to My fans platform Loyal Fans at Only-Tess.com,
Are the interests You list on Your website all that You cover?
Yes, I’m not interested in expanding My interests at this time.
I’m a sissy and I want to be feminised but I don’t have any of my own wardrobe?
I have a decent selection of femme clothing ranging from slutty styles to PVC/Latex/Leather outfits including maids uniforms. The more advance notice I have of your sizing the better so I can prepare wigs, clothing and footwear.
Do You have equipment to cater to pet play?
Yes! I have a selection of paws, puppy hoods and harness, toys and of course dog bowl/leash and collar. I also adore pony play and I have small rugs, a groom kit, a small saddle and various pony bit style gags.
Can I buy You a gift?
Of course you may, I do love to be spoiled! Check out My wishlist.
Amazon: SpoilMissTess.co.uk
WishTender: LavishTess.com
Can I buy You something to bring along and You can wear in our session?
you may, but I will want to see it prior for approval as I won’t just wear anything. Please enquire in the pre-session communications as to My measurements as required.
Will You film or photograph our session?
I don’t ever film My sessions without consent, I may take a photograph/video sessions from time to time with players well known and established to Me but only with their explicit permission and awareness prior to the session start. Should you wish for parts of your session to be filmed this may be able to be accommodated at an additional tribute with prior discussion.
I want to get to know you a little better before W/we session, how can I do that?
If you want to get to know Me prior to booking a session you can occasionally find Me to chat over on Adultwork cams: CamWithTess.com or you can subscribe to My fans platform on Loyal Fans: Only-Tess.com
I really want to book in for session with You now, how do I go about that?
Firstly READ MY WEBSITE FULLY, including these FAQ’s and particularly the page that lists My interests and limits. you’ll then visit the application form on My website and complete as fully as possible with honest, informative and precise content. you’ll await My reply, usually within a few days, if you hear nothing within a week you have likely NOT been successful and have a think on that and how you can do better. If you have been successful and received a reply you’ll be offered My availability within the preferences you listed on your application or close alternatives. To secure the session booking you will be required to pay a 50% session deposit via bank transfer with the remainder of the tribute due on the day. DO NOT send an application to Me until you are in a position to pay this deposit.
you will then be offered location instructions for on the day and it is mandatory you confirm your appointment by text (My mobile number is on all of My email replies) before 10am on the day if you have an afternoon session time booked in or the by 7pm the evening prior if it is a morning session time booked in. Failure to confirm your appointment can and will often result in your session being forfeited and deposit lost.
Is My session deposit refundable/transferable?
No, the deposit is NOT refundable or transferable in any circumstances. I am a one Woman self employed operation, I take on limited sessions every week and I am selective on who I see. It’s a matter of respect for My time and investment in this industry, your advance understanding on why your deposit is non transferable is appreciated.
I understand things crop up and happen, but I have to establish clear boudnaries for My business to be a success and in turn support My family.
If you cancel your appointment, you are welcome to book a future session with Me of course BUT you will be required to pay the full amount up front on this occasion.
Do you require confirmation I’m attending my session booking with You?
Yes, it is mandatory you confirm your appointment by text (My mobile number is on all of My email replies) before 10am on the day if you have an afternoon session time booked in or the by 7pm the evening prior if it is a morning session time booked in. Failure to confirm your appointment can and will often result in your session being forfeited and deposit lost.
I want my face/identity hidden for a filming day, why do You need my ID?
The regulations around clip sales are specific in requiring both proof of age and your consent to filming. These documents must be provided in order for videos to be made available for sale. This is why, regardless if you have provided your ID previously, you will still be required to sign a model release form for the particular day filming takes place. It is not stored anywhere other than securely on the third party clips sales site.
How do I become a filming slave for You?
When I require a filming slave I advertise on My social media or on My blog here on My website, you can then apply as instructed on the advertisement. I only film with experienced subs. I will require a reference of a Professional Dominatrix you have seen in the last 18 months in the capacity of regular sessions or a filming day. I will check the reference so I will need their website/social media links.
you need to be comfortable providing your ID for copies to be taken and signing a model release. I’m happy for you to wear a hood to protect your anonymity. A tribute will always apply, filming days are conducted completely differently to sessions, it is NOT your opportunity to get discounted play, trust Me.